You need the thicker rear suspension springs that are made with .375" stock. Here are the part numbers from the polaris industries parts manual
http://www.polaris.com/en-us/snowmobiles/pages/parts-manuals.aspx
7041631-067 SPRING-TORSION,.375/77°,LH,BLK (.375/77)
7041632-067 SPRING-TORSION,.375/77°,RH,BLK (.375/77)
These springs are not only heavier but they have a different angle between the short end and the long end so give more tension when installed in that regard as well.
As far as the front torque arm shock I have replaced one but just with the stock unit. If I were you I might try to rebuild the Fox shock as it should be a better shock. The missing bushing should be a replaceable item I believe but I am not positive about that.
Here is a short explanation regarding springs. The front torque arm shock and spring work more in conjunction with the front ski springs. The more you compress the spring on it the more the front of the track supports the front end weight of the sled which reduces some of the weight supported by the skis. Similarly if you crank up the tension on the front ski springs you carry more of the front end weight on the skis. With more weight being supported by the front skis you get sharper but heavier steering. The front torque arm spring also determines the bump absorption characteristics when you nail a bump with the front of the track. The shock itself determines the rate at which the bump compresses the spring as well as the rebound of the spring after the bump is gone. As volcano buster noted, the mounting position of the shock also determines how much effect the torque arm shock spring has due to the angle of the shock in relation to the skidframe. The front ski springs likewise determine how much the ski deflects upwards when you hit a bump.
The rear torsion springs (which you certainly need to replace) basically carry the back of the sled's weight along with most of your weight in that chassis. That's pretty much it in a nutshell. All the springs interact with each other so there are a multitude of adjustments you can make to dial in your riding preference.
If you lift the front end or tip the sled so there is no weight on them you may be able to turn the collar for the ski springs by hand.