What have you found?? Sounds eerily similar to what I went through last friday. When backing off of sled deck headlights went out, taillight and gauge went out, sled idled fine. Handwarmers work, reverse works. Switched lights to hi beam and they worked at idle, but blew out when I gave it some gas. Checked all connections, fuses, found nothing out of ordinary. went to load it back up on deck and it was running in super rich limp mode. Barely got it to get on the deck. I assume its the VR. I plugged my gauge into my wifes m8 and it works, but its all messed up. Elevation is WAY off and somehow I gained almost 1000 miles. Very strange. I'm waiting for my new VR, hopefully that will fix it.
Post what you find out with your sled I'm curious to know.