still looking for the info if someone has it out of curiosity but I've validated that the VR isn't my problem. I unplugged the old VR, plugged in the new one without actually mounting it and found that my problem wasn't resolved....Back to the drawing board.
I imagine that you are now wondering what my problem was....well sled starts and runs great but has no electronics (i.e., no lights, mfd, hand/thumb warmers). I ohmed out the stator and other than getting 0.3 across the charge coils vice the manual identified readings of 0.13 ohms +- 10% everything checks out. I have another stator and got the same measurements so despite being out of tolerance, I do think it works. I also checked all connections and everything looks ok. If i put voltage to the light diagnostic plug, all lights/mfd work so I'm ruling out a short or bad wiring.
Next I'm going to open the stator and have a look. Apply 12 V to the lights diagnostic and check voltage at VR plug to see if voltage is there; if so, then maybe something is up with the stator.
If anyone has any other suggestions please provide them.